Tick tock says the guy who doesn’t loose his ability to breed safely before middle age. He just goes for those 20 somethings for the rest of his life while his nuts sag. They might actually be genuinely impressed that he has a paycheck. In my 40s dating a guy of the same age is impossible because they all are looking at women half my age because those girls are the only ones who won’t call them out on their BS because they are just so happy to be with a guy that can pay his mortgage and doesn’t still live in his mom’s basement.